Dear MzDaeDae:
My ex and I stopped dating over a year ago. I Haven’t talked to him since that day. The issue is, even though its been more than a year I still really miss him. Lately I’ve been having this urge to call him. I haven’t called him yet but I’m almost to my breaking point. I think my feelings for him are stronger than what I thought they were. I don’t know if I should go ahead and call him or if I should leave well enough alone. Your opinion is appreciated. ~ Ms. He's Always on My Mind
Dear Ms. He's Always on My Mind
Hmm.. Okay great way to start this off. I've gotten this question from plenty people. The reason you've been thinking about him is because you are lonely. If you were out enjoying your life, as I'm sure he's out enjoying his, he wouldn't cross your mind. Whenever we break up with someone or lose someone we have to go through stages of relationship grief. Our heart often encourages us to do things that our mind would say is a bad idea. I can tell by you writing me that there is conflict between your logical brain and emotional heart, therefore meaning your mind gave you the answer you already knew I was going to say. Live your life forget about him, you will eventually fall in love with someone else and you'll know its right because your brain and your heart will be on the same page. ~ Mz.DaeDae
P.S. Thank you for being my first advicee!
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